I haven’t said much, anything about the death of Monique, I haven’t been able to so Heavy has been my heart. It hurt so much […]
To all good men, a request
My dear fathers, brothers, and sons. I love you and I want you to understand that I see your desire to be seen as “good” […]
UCSB shooting: reflections on sexual safety
If we want safety for women – we need to take a look at the barren wasteland of abuse we offer to males in this […]
Flirting: a lost healing art.
You know…. Flirting is such a true art form! It’s takes true skill to be able to do it – there is such a fine […]
The best “amend” in the history of film!
The best “amend” in the history of film! I sit here today as your humble teacher, counselor, coach, and film lover! Years ago, I ran […]
Circles of dysfunction; How the messenger is slain.
Here’s the scene: Two children are fighting. They are fighting because the elder child has taken a toy from the younger one. The younger one […]
Our Children. Slaves or free?
As parents we must always ask ourselves, what sort of being do we wish to see our children evolve into. Docile yes men or women? […]
Mothers, what do we do?
OK. so mothers of color, black mothers, what do we do – keep our children home under lock and key?… because it seems clear that […]
Veteran’s Day 2013
On this Veteran’s Day, I pray that we truly honor our children. Lets give them life affirming ways to walk with pride in our society. […]
Morning 9/30/13
Its lovely outside. Cool – not cold, moist from a light sprinkling… i can smell the quiet and the earth. Reminds me of other early […]